Episode #461

The 4.6-Year Itch: Navigating the New Career Path

Is the 40-year career dead? Corn and Herman dive into the data behind job hopping and the "loyalty discount" in today’s modern workforce.

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In a recent episode of My Weird Prompts, brothers Corn and Herman Poppleberry sat down in their Jerusalem living room to dismantle one of the most persistent myths of the modern labor market: the idea that everyone is quitting their jobs every six months. Sparked by a voice note from their housemate Daniel, the discussion delved deep into the reality of employment tenure, the death of the "gold watch" career, and why the "non-linear path" has become the modern survival strategy.

The Myth vs. The Math

The conversation began with a look at the hard data. While headlines often suggest a state of total chaos in the workforce, Herman pointed out that the median tenure for U.S. workers has remained remarkably stable over the last decade. According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, the median tenure sits at approximately 4.6 years—a figure that has barely budged since 2014.

However, as Herman explained, this "stable" average masks a massive generational divide. For workers aged 55 to 64, the median tenure is over a decade. For those aged 25 to 34, it plummets to just 2.7 years. Corn noted that for a young professional, two years can feel like an eternity, whereas for an older worker, it is merely a blip in a larger corporate cycle. This suggests that while the "career man" of the 1950s might be disappearing, the transition hasn't been a sudden collapse, but rather a gradual thinning of the traditional career timeline.

The Broken Social Contract

A central theme of the episode was the dissolution of the "social contract" that once defined the Western workforce. Herman argued that the mid-century model—where an employee gave forty years of loyalty in exchange for a pension and job security—was effectively torn up in the 1980s and 90s. The rise of shareholder primacy and the normalization of mass layoffs changed the calculus for workers.

When companies stopped guaranteeing long-term security, employees responded rationally by prioritizing their own mobility. Corn observed that this shift isn't just a matter of preference; it is a response to an environment where a "reduction in force" can happen regardless of individual performance. In this new reality, staying at a company for too long can actually be a financial liability.

The "Loyalty Discount" and the AI Gap

One of the most provocative points discussed was the "loyalty discount." Herman cited data suggesting that employees who stay at the same company for more than a few years often earn significantly less over their lifetimes than those who switch. In the modern market, the most substantial raises often come from changing employers rather than internal promotions.

This trend is being exacerbated by the rise of Artificial Intelligence. Referencing a previous discussion on how AI is "hollowing out" the middle of the career ladder, Corn and Herman explained that if the middle rungs of a company are missing, workers are forced to jump to entirely different "ladders" (companies) to continue their upward trajectory. If there is no internal path to growth, the only way to move up is to move out.

From Institutions to Craft

This volatility is fundamentally changing how professionals view themselves. Herman argued that we are seeing a shift in professional identity: people no longer identify as "a Boeing engineer" or "a New York Times journalist." Instead, they identify by their craft—as coders, writers, or architects—who happen to be lending their skills to a specific venue for a limited time.

While this "CEO of your own career" mindset can be empowering, the hosts acknowledged the heavy burden it places on the individual. Workers are now responsible for their own upskilling, networking, and retirement planning. This "fragmented career" requires a level of administrative overhead that can be exhausting, contributing to the general sense of burnout felt across many industries.

The Israeli Context: A Tale of Two Cultures

Sitting in Jerusalem, the brothers also looked at the local landscape. Israel provides a unique case study where old-school institutional loyalty (found in the defense and utility sectors) clashes with the hyper-volatility of "Silicon Wadi." Herman noted that even in the high-tech sector, the market is beginning to mature. After years of legendary turnover, there is a visible cooling off as workers seek stability in companies with clear paths to profitability rather than just the next round of venture capital.

Advice for the Modern Era

For employers, Herman’s advice was clear: to beat the 4.6-year median, companies must make internal moves as attractive as external ones. Waiting for an employee to bring a competing offer is a losing strategy; by then, the psychological "itch" to leave has already set in.

For employees, the takeaway was one of intentionality. Herman suggested treating a career as a series of "projects." Each stint at a company should serve a purpose—providing a new skill, a broader network, or increased responsibility. When a project is complete, it is time to reassess, whether that means finding a new challenge within the same organization or moving on to the next.

Ultimately, Corn and Herman concluded that the forty-year career might have been a historical anomaly of the post-war era. As we move toward 2026 and beyond, the "portfolio career" is a return to a more fluid, multi-faceted way of working—one where the gold watch is no longer a gift from a boss, but a reward one earns for successfully navigating a non-linear life.

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Episode #461: The 4.6-Year Itch: Navigating the New Career Path

Corn
Hey everyone, welcome back to My Weird Prompts. I am Corn, and I am sitting here in our living room in Jerusalem with my brother.
Herman
Herman Poppleberry, at your service. It is a beautiful day outside, but we are inside, ready to dive into some data.
Corn
We really are. Our housemate Daniel sent us a voice note this morning that got us both thinking. He was reminiscing about that old image of the career man, the person who starts at a company at twenty-two and retires forty years later with a gold watch and a pension.
Herman
The classic mid-century dream. Or nightmare, depending on how much you like your coworkers, I suppose.
Corn
Exactly. Daniel was asking if that is completely dead, or if we are just in a temporary state of chaos. He wanted to know about the current state of employment tenure and how these career trajectories have shifted into what he called non-linear paths.
Herman
It is a great question because there is a lot of myth-making around this. People often say, oh, nobody stays at a job for more than a year anymore, or the gig economy has destroyed the stable career. But when you actually look at the numbers, the reality is a bit more nuanced than the headlines suggest.
Corn
Well, let us start there then. What does the data actually tell us? If we look at the United States first, what is the median tenure for a worker today?
Herman
So, the latest figures from the Bureau of Labor Statistics show that the median tenure for wage and salary workers is about 4.6 years. What is interesting is that this number has been remarkably stable for the last decade. Back in January of 2014, it was also about 4.6 years.
Corn
Four point six years. That feels like a long time if you are in the tech world, but a short time if you are thinking about that forty-year career. Does that vary a lot by age? I imagine the twenty-somethings are dragging that average down.
Herman
Oh, absolutely. The age gap is massive. For workers aged fifty-five to sixty-four, the median tenure is about 10.3 years. Almost a decade plus. But for workers aged twenty-five to thirty-four, it drops down to about 2.7 years. It makes sense, right? When you are young, you are exploring, you are trying to find the right fit, and you are often jumping for those early-career salary bumps.
Corn
Right, and in your twenties, a two-year stint feels like an epoch. When you are fifty, two years is just a couple of budget cycles. But let us talk about Israel for a second, since we are sitting here in Jerusalem. The high-tech scene here is famous for its volatility, but does it follow the same pattern?
Herman
Israel is a fascinating case study because you have this clash of cultures. On one hand, you have the old-school institutional loyalty that came out of the socialist roots of the state, like the big utility companies or the defense sector. In those places, you still see people staying for twenty or thirty years. But then you have the Silicon Wadi, the high-tech hub.
Corn
And there, the turnover is legendary.
Herman
It is. But even there, we have seen some cooling off. A few years ago, it felt like people were changing jobs every eighteen months just because a recruiter breathed in their direction. But recently, as the market has matured and companies are focusing more on profitability over pure growth, we are seeing a bit more caution. People are looking for stability. They are looking for companies that have a clear path forward, rather than just the next venture capital round.
Corn
That brings up Daniel's point about peak instability. Have we reached a plateau? Are we going to see a return to longer tenures, or is the three-year hop the new permanent normal?
Herman
I think we are at a point of stabilization, but at a lower baseline than our parents' generation. The social contract has changed, Corn. In the nineteen-fifties and sixties, there was an implicit agreement: you give us your loyalty, and we give you a pension and job security. That contract was torn up in the nineteen-eighties and nineties with the rise of shareholder primacy and mass layoffs.
Corn
And once the companies stopped being loyal to the employees, the employees stopped being loyal to the companies. It is a rational response to a changed environment.
Herman
Exactly. If you know that you could be part of a ten percent reduction in force next Tuesday regardless of your performance, why wouldn't you keep your options open? Why wouldn't you take that twenty percent raise at the competitor?
Corn
It is funny you mention the reduction in force. We talked about this a bit in episode three hundred ninety-seven, when we looked at how artificial intelligence is hollowing out the middle of the career ladder. If the middle rungs are missing, you have to jump to a different ladder entirely to keep climbing.
Herman
That is a perfect connection. The non-linear path Daniel mentioned isn't always a choice; it is often a necessity. If your company doesn't have a clear internal promotion track because those middle-management roles are being automated or flattened, you have to move out to move up.
Corn
So, if the median is 4.6 years, what industries are actually keeping people? Who is still getting the gold watches?
Herman
It is mostly the public sector and heavy industry. In the United States, the median tenure for government employees is around 6.8 years. That is significantly higher than the private sector median of about 4.1 years. Manufacturing also tends to have higher tenure, around 5.5 years, because the skills are often very specific to that company's machinery or processes.
Corn
What about the tech giants? You hear stories about people at places like Google or Nvidia who have been there since the early days.
Herman
Those are the outliers. Even at the big firms, the median tenure is often surprisingly low, sometimes around two or three years. But that is skewed by the fact that they are hiring so many new people. If you hire ten thousand people this year, your average tenure is going to look low even if your veterans are staying forever.
Corn
That is a good point about the math. But I want to go deeper on the psychological side of this. If we are moving from job to job every few years, what does that do to our sense of professional identity? We used to be a Boeing engineer or a New York Times journalist. Now, we are a software architect who happens to be at a fintech startup this year.
Herman
It shifts the identity from the institution to the craft. You are a writer, or a coder, or a marketer, and the company is just the current venue for your work. It is a very different way of moving through the world. It requires a lot more self-management. You are the CEO of your own career, which sounds empowering, but it is also exhausting.
Corn
It really is. You have to handle your own upskilling, your own networking, and in many places, your own retirement planning. We touched on this in episode three hundred twenty-four when we discussed why we are still so overworked despite all this productivity technology. The overhead of managing a fragmented career is a full-time job in itself.
Herman
And let us not forget the impact on teams. If you are a manager and you know that half your team will be gone in thirty-six months, how much do you invest in their long-term development? How much do you care about the deep culture of the team?
Corn
It creates this transactional atmosphere. I'll give you my best work for two years, you give me a good salary and a brand name on my resume, and then we both move on. No hard feelings. But you lose that deep institutional knowledge. You lose the people who remember why a certain decision was made ten years ago.
Herman
I see that in the high-tech sector here in Israel all the time. Companies are constantly reinventing the wheel because the person who built the original wheel left for a startup in Tel Aviv six months ago. It is a massive hidden cost to the economy.
Corn
So, do you think we will ever see a return to the single-employer model? Or is that just a historical anomaly of the post-war era?
Herman
I think the forty-year career was the anomaly. If you look at human history before the industrial revolution, people had very fluid, multi-faceted roles. You were a farmer, but you were also a builder, and maybe a trader. The idea of being a cog in a single corporate machine for your entire adult life is actually a relatively new and perhaps brief experiment.
Corn
That is a perspective I hadn't considered. So, the non-linear path is actually a return to form?
Herman
In a way, yes. We are moving toward what some people call the portfolio career. You might have a main job, a side project, and a few freelance clients. Or you might spend five years in one industry and then completely pivot. The data shows that the average worker will hold 12 to 15 different jobs in their lifetime. That is a lot of transitions.
Corn
Twelve to fifteen jobs. That is a lot of interviews, Herman. I am getting stressed just thinking about it.
Herman
Well, the good news is that we are getting better at it. The tools for job searching and the social acceptability of jumping have made it much easier. It used to be that if you had a gap in your resume or too many short stints, you were seen as a red flag. Now, if you've been at the same place for fifteen years, some recruiters might actually wonder if you've become stagnant.
Corn
That is the flip side of the coin, isn't it? The penalty for loyalty.
Herman
It is a real thing. There is data suggesting that people who stay at the same company for more than a few years earn significantly less over their lifetime than those who switch. The loyalty discount is a harsh reality of the modern labor market.
Corn
So, what is the takeaway for our listeners? If you are sitting there in your third year at a job and you are feeling that itch, is it just the statistics catching up with you?
Herman
I think the key is to be intentional. Don't leave just because the median says you should, but don't stay out of a false sense of loyalty to an institution that might not be loyal to you. The most successful people I see are those who treat their career like a series of projects. Each project should give you a new skill, a new network, or a new level of responsibility. When the project is finished, it is time to look for the next one, whether that is inside your current company or somewhere else.
Corn
And for the employers listening, how do you fight this? If you want to keep your best people, how do you beat the 4.6-year median?
Herman
You have to make the internal move as attractive as the external one. Most people leave because they want a new challenge or a raise. If you can provide those things without them having to change their email address, they might stay. But you have to be proactive. You can't wait for them to come to you with a competing offer. By then, it is usually too late.
Corn
It is about creating a internal marketplace for talent. We saw some of this in our discussion about remote work hubs in episode three hundred forty-five. When you decouple the job from the specific office, you open up more internal possibilities, but you also make it easier for them to work for anyone else in the world.
Herman
It is a double-edged sword. But that is the world we are living in. I don't think we are going back to the gold watch. I think we are going toward a world where the watch is something you buy yourself because you finally hit your goals as an independent professional.
Corn
That is a bit more solitary, but I suppose it is the reality of twenty twenty-six. Herman, I want to talk about the concept of portable benefits before we wrap up. Because if we are jumping around so much, things like health insurance and retirement savings become a nightmare to manage.
Herman
This is a huge policy debate right now. There is a lot of talk about decoupling benefits from the employer entirely. Imagine a system where your benefits follow you, not your job. You have a central account for your health, your pension, and your training budget, and every employer you work for contributes to it proportionally.
Corn
That would take so much of the friction out of the system. It would make that twelve-job career much less terrifying.
Herman
It would, but it requires a massive shift in how we think about the role of the corporation in society. We are still using a system designed for that nineteen-fifties model, even though the labor market has moved on.
Corn
It is like trying to run modern software on a computer from forty years ago. It kind of works, but it is slow and it crashes all the time.
Herman
Exactly. And the crashes are what we see as career burnouts or long periods of unemployment between roles.
Corn
Well, this has been a fascinating look at the data. It is reassuring in a way to know that the world isn't as chaotic as it feels, but also a reminder that the old stability is gone.
Herman
It is a different kind of stability, Corn. It is the stability of your own skills and your own adaptability. That is the only thing you can really count on.
Corn
Well said. Before we sign off, I want to say a huge thank you to Daniel for the prompt. It really sparked a great conversation here.
Herman
Definitely. And hey, if you are listening and you found this helpful, or if you have your own thoughts on the four-year itch, we would love to hear from you.
Corn
Also, if you could take a second to leave us a review on your podcast app or on Spotify, it would mean a lot. It really helps other people find the show and keeps us going.
Herman
It genuinely does. We check those reviews more often than we probably should.
Corn
You can find all our past episodes, including the ones we mentioned today, at myweirdprompts dot com. There is a full archive there and a contact form if you want to send us a prompt of your own.
Herman
We are also on Spotify, so make sure to follow us there so you never miss an episode.
Corn
Alright, that is it for today. Thanks for joining us on My Weird Prompts. I am Corn.
Herman
And I am Herman Poppleberry. We will see you next time.
Corn
Take care, everyone.
Herman
So, Corn, how long have you been at this podcasting gig now?
Corn
Oh, since the beginning, Herman. I think I am well past the median tenure at this point.
Herman
Does that mean you are looking for a twenty percent raise?
Corn
I'll talk to the house manager about it.
Herman
Good luck with that. Bye everyone!
Corn
Bye!
Herman
So, thinking about the Israel data again, did you see that report about the defense sector? They were saying that even there, the younger generation is starting to push for shorter contracts. They want the prestige of having served in those elite units, but they don't necessarily want to stay until they are fifty-five.
Corn
It is the same thing we talked about with the brand name on the resume. Spend three years in Unit eight thousand two hundred, and you are set for life in the private sector. The military is becoming the ultimate elite university and first employer combined.
Herman
And that creates a huge brain drain for the state. If all your best cyber experts leave at twenty-five to start a fintech company, how do you maintain your national security infrastructure?
Corn
You have to change the model. You have to make the mission more compelling than the stock options. Or, you have to find a way to let them do both. We are seeing more of these hybrid roles where people split their time between the public and private sectors.
Herman
That is the ultimate non-linear path. A foot in both worlds.
Corn
It might be the only way to keep the system running. Anyway, we should probably let people get back to their jobs. Or their job searches.
Herman
Right. Until next time.
Corn
See ya.
Herman
Wait, did I mention the manufacturing tenure was five point five years? I should have double-checked if that was for durable or non-durable goods.
Corn
Herman, let it go. We are done.
Herman
I just want to be precise!
Corn
You were precise enough. Let's go get some coffee.
Herman
Fine. Coffee it is.
Corn
My Weird Prompts is a production of three guys in a house in Jerusalem. Thanks for listening.
Herman
And thanks for being part of our community. We really appreciate you.
Corn
Seriously. Bye for real now.
Herman
Bye!

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